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Our Fancy Swirling Single of the Week!

September 26, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 1 Comment

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Let’s face it: Black women are fabulous.

And fancy!

We’re fabulous, we’re fancy, we’re all that.

And we own it.

This Black woman is so fancy, her friends call her “Miss Fanci!”

Say hello to Hester Beal, our fancy – and featured – Swirling Single of the Week!

Hester says:

My name is Hester; but most call me “Miss Fanci.” I am a 37-year-old Georgia Peach from Warner Robins, Georgia, home of the former Miss America.

I am the mother of a beautiful 2-year-old baby boy blessing. I’m not his biological mother, but I was there for his birth and he has been with me ever since.

I recently completed my Masters’ degree in Human Services/Life Coaching and Military Resilience Cognate.  I absolutely love helping people, especially at-risk youth. My life has been centered around helping others.

I am single and never been married. I have traditional values, with God placed at the core.

I love to laugh. I love to cook. I love city lights. I’m excited to get out there and see what the world has to offer!

Connect with Hester via email at SocialEyeCandi@hotmail.com and on Facebook by clicking here.


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Fireman & Family Man – Our Swirling Single of the Week!

July 25, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

Family Man

Last week we announced we were bringing back our Swirling Single of Week.

We’re proud of the fact that two of our alums met the men of their dreams (one of them was snagged by our own Patrick Browne, a transplant from Ireland).

Whelp, we’re equal opportunity Swirlers here in The Swirl World, and as a result we’ve decided to put a twist on this segment: we are now going to feature men as well.

(They swirl too, you know!)

Fancy A Fireman?

It’s a well-known fact that many women love a man in uniform, and this week’s Swirler has proudly worn not one, but two uniforms.

Meet David Bowling, a member of our private Facebook group and our Swirling Single of the Week!

David says,

Family Man“Hello everyone my name is David. I’m 37, 38 in September. I’m a God-fearing single father of three. I have a set of 12-year-old twins and a 4-year-old son. I currently live in Maryland.

I’m a United States Navy veteran and current Lieutenant in the fire department for 12 years.

I’m the oldest of 5 siblings. I lost my father at the age of 5 during a tragic fishing accident. My mother is still alive and groomed me into the man I am today.

I’ve played high school and college basketball. I love football (Baltimore Ravens) Lol!

I enjoy fishing, boating, camping, amusement parks; just about every sport and love to eat. I love to cook and workout.

A Family Man

I’m a family man. I volunteer a lot of my time to nonprofit organizations and believe in giving back, whether it’s the military or homeless shelters.

I’m laid back and loving with a huge heart. I look forward to getting to know everyone.

Again, thank you for accepting me into the family. Swirl on!”

Family ManTo connect with David on Facebook, click here.

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He Says, She Says: Boundaries

June 24, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 1 Comment

He Says, She Says

Millennials Angelique Evette Long and Jonathan Gamel are back with another installment of and our new series, He Says, She Says.

Each week, we’re posing the same question to Angel and Jon.

Our purpose is to glean some insight not only into the male and female perspective on the same question but more important, from the perspective of a Black woman and a White man involved in an interracial relationship.

Today’s Question: Let’s Talk Boundaries

This week, Angel and Jonathan respond to the question:

Give a general explanation of boundaries.  How do you define boundaries? Why do Black women specifically, and women in general, need them?

He Says, She SaysHe Says: Jonathan

If you are intending to date as a means of finding a partner, you must have boundaries. If you do not know exactly what you are willing to accept then how will you ever find someone who is compatible for the long-term?

I believe women in general are almost forced to set strict, more defined boundaries than men. If allowed, men will push the limits that a woman has set, and might not necessarily be comfortable with. She has to be confident enough within herself to uphold the boundaries that she has previously set, and be willing to move on if the man doesn’t want to comply.

He Says, She SaysShe Says: Angel

Establishing boundaries is very important when it comes to dating. When you set boundaries it means that you have a strong sense of self and stand firmly on your beliefs and standards. In doing so, you will not tolerate anyone who cannot respect any boundary you set.

You feel comfortable telling a man “no” when he attempts to cross that line, without you feeling unsure or guilty. Remember, no matter how good a man may seem to you, if he is having trouble respecting your boundaries, then he is not the man for you.

Establishing healthy boundaries for your life in general is a good thing. It keeps you from over-working, over-giving, and over-doing yourself.

 


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See you next time!

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He Says, She Says: Installment 1

June 16, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

He Says, She Says

So, last week we introduced you to millennials Angelique Evette Long and Jonathan Gamel and our new, He Says, She Says feature.

Each week, we’re going to pose the same question to this couple.

Our purpose is to glean some insight not only into the male and female perspective on the same question but more important, from the perspective of a Black woman and a White man involved in an interracial relationship.

Keep reading – you’ll see they’re not shy about giving their opinion!

Today’s Question

Today, Angel and Jonathan respond to the question:

Black women get a LOT of flak from seemingly all sides in relation to their dating practices. What are they doing right when it comes to dating?

He Says, She SaysHe Says: Jonathan 

I really don’t believe that there is a quintessential “right” or “wrong” way to go about dating in general. Each individual has a background that is just as unique as they are. So I believe that putting a “right” or “wrong” label on someone’s approach at dating would be unfair. Instead, I would prefer to use “misguided” rather than “wrong.”

Society today puts so much pressure on young women to be the perfect shape, size, and color. For example, in a lot of ways society praises the half-naked, slim physique, lighter skinned woman; while also not shunning, but not fully accepting a professionally dressed, full-figured, darker skinned woman as equally attractive in most cases.

So many beautiful young women are being broken by society’s standards. If a woman does not feel confident and worthy within herself, how can she possibly approach dating in a healthy manner, with a positive outlook? In my opinion, this is what leads to extreme promiscuity, self-exploitation via social media, and self-harm.

The lack of confidence and self-worth caused by not fitting into what society calls “attractive” is, in my opinion, the reason why there are so many
females that feel like they’re doing it “wrong.”

On the other side of the equation, we have the women that society praises for their looks. I believe this causes an overly confident belief system. Society, in general, is teaching this set of women something totally different from what they are teaching the others.

For example, they are taught that they are “better” because of their body shape, skin color, or the way they dress themselves (or the lack thereof). Although these women are being praised, they are still being broken by the same system.

Each set of women is being played against the other for various reasons. On one hand, you have a broken young woman who has always been told
she wasn’t “good enough.” She will almost always lack the skills necessary to approach dating in a positive, confident manner. This can cause her to do things out of her character in hopes of attracting a man.

Unknowingly, the same things catching the attention of potential temporary suitors are also the exact things that may deter a potential long-term partner.

Meanwhile, on the other hand, you have an equally broken young woman because she was always told that she was “better.” She will almost always lack the skills necessary to approach dating in a realistic, humble manner. This can cause her to be overly confident, and have an exaggerated self-appraisal. This exaggerated sense of self-appraisal will deter potential long-term partners because she believes that nothing is ever good enough for her, in various aspects of life.

Both sets of women are equally broken by the same system!  They have been “misguided” from adolescence. The actions that they take are not
“wrong” because that is what they have been taught by society. Yet, they are extremely misguided.

This doesn’t just work for different physical appearances; it can be attributed to many other aspects of a young woman’s life. I don’t believe a person can be considered “wrong” for doing what the world around them has taught them to do.

Ultimately, you have to be yourself and do what is right for you. Keep your head held high and remember; love yourself first!

He Says, She SaysShe Says: Angel

Answer to Question 1:

When it comes to what Black women and women in general, are doing “right” in the sense of dating, I believe it’s definitely being confident; knowing who you are and owning it.

You have to know your worth so you won’t keep dating the wrong men.

Also, do some serious introspection. If there are characteristics that you feel are unhealthy for yourself and other people, then change those things in order to be a better YOU; not just because you want to be liked and accepted by someone else.

Men love a confident woman; they see it like this: “If a woman can love herself this much, I can imagine the love she has to offer me!”

Question 1 – Part 2

As far as what women are doing “wrong” when it comes to dating, I would have to say not loving yourself. I say this because when you truly love yourself, you value your mind, body, and soul. Therefore, you do what is necessary to keep those things healthy. When you do that, you will naturally be attractive to men.

Think about what most men want from a woman: intelligence, well-kept, confident, and classy. Not to offend anyone at all, but I don’t believe a good man is looking to date a woman who shows off her body inappropriately on social media and to the public, or a woman who is giving her body to multiple men at one time.

So reverting back to what I said, when you love yourself you value yourself.

I know many women may be thinking, “Well, I am very confident and I always carry myself like a lady, yet I still cannot find a man!”

I want to let these women know that they should not be discouraged; and by all means, never degrade yourself to catch the attention of a man. When the time is right, your Prince Charming will come and sweep you off of your feet! Just be patient; it will be worth the wait, trust me.

 


Join In The Fray: Got a question for Angel and Jonathan? Send it c/o ASwirlGirl@TheSwirlWorl.com.

See you next time!

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Introducing A New Feature: He Says, She Says!

June 9, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

Depending how long you’ve been hearing about or reading self-help books of the “relationship” genre, you may or may not be familiar with the iconic NY Times bestseller, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication & Getting What You Want in Your Relationships, by John Gray, PhD.

In his book, “Dr. John Gray provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication by acknowledging the differences between their needs, desires, and behaviors.”

The short version?

The premise of the book is simple. Men and women are different.

(Duh!)

We Have A New Feature

Yeah, men and women are different. Throw in the added twist of an interracial relationship and well, things can get very interesting.

Today, we take great pleasure in introducing a new feature here on the blog: He Says, She Says!

Enter millennials Angelique Evette Long and Jonathan Gamel. As we progress with this series, we’re going to pose the same question to this couple.

Our purpose is to glean some insight not only into the male and female perspective on the same question, but more important, from the perspective of a Black woman and a White man involved in an interracial relationship.

Meet Angelique and Jonathan!

She Says: Angelique Evette Long

He Says, She SaysMy name is Angelique Evette Long, but I go by the nickname Angel. I’m a 26-year-old with an “old soul.” In other words, I’m a bit old-fashioned.

I was born and raised in a small country town called Belle Mina, Alabama. I’m a mother of 3 amazing children; ages 8, 6, and 3. I’m a full-time college student at Athens State University majoring in Psychology, and where I am an executive officer and co-founder of SGA Online.

My passion is to help people who have a mental illness cope with life.

After I complete undergrad and grad school, I plan on using my Master’s Degree to start my own practice; while also working on my PhD.

I’ve always been a helper; whether it be through giving advice or volunteering. I believe that God placed us on Earth to be a light for others, so with each day my heart is open and willing.

He Says: Jonathan Gamel

He Says, She SaysWell, my name is Jonathan Gamel. I’m 24 years old, and I come from a small home in a small town in Alabama.

Right out of high school I started a job working construction because college just didn’t make sense to me.

After 6 years at that job I decided that I was finally tired of using my body, and I was ready to start using my brain. I came up with the idea for an amazing mobile app that is expected to revolutionize the way event marketing is done.

The name of the app is EventPro. It’s in the early stages at the moment but it is coming along nicely. EventPro is a year in the making and I must say that it hasn’t been easy, but it was absolutely worth the risk.

Now I am here interacting with you guys; thanks to Angel. I really appreciate the opportunity that The Swirl World is affording me.

Most people dream of being able to tell their heartfelt opinions about important lifestyle topics to an audience of captivated listeners or readers, and here we are! I really hope that everyone enjoys reading the articles that will follow.

How They Met

He Says, She Says

Angel says,

“We met via social media; Snapchat to be exact. It had been a year since my previous relationship and I was still a little bitter, so one day I just decided to make a snap saying, “I’m convinced that no man can handle me!”

Jonathan saw my post and private messaged asking, “Is it possible that you create situations where no man can “handle” you?”

His response was so intriguing; I didn’t know whether to feel impressed or insulted!

I became slightly interested, so I messaged him back and we hit it off quite well. This month would make it one year ago since that initial conversation; we’ve been going strong ever since.

Jonathan and I want to reach out to those who may be struggling to find a partner, and/or to interracial couples that may need advice on the everyday issues that mixed relationships face.

It’s not easy being in an interracial relationship, especially when you’re from a place where dating outside of your race is not approved. Because we live in the South, we get the whispers and the rude stares whenever we go out in public.

It used to get to me at first because Jonathan is the first white guy I’ve ever dated, so I wasn’t used to that. Eventually, I told myself, ‘Stop being bothered by anyone who doesn’t approve of your relationship; they contribute nothing to your love life. What’s important is that I love Jonathan and he loves me. That’s all that will ever matter.’

So now when I notice the negative reactions from people, I just smile at them and keep going.

Our reasons for wanting to reach out to the singles looking to date outside of their race is that we understand that for some people, it takes little or no effort to find the mate they are looking for, but for others it isn’t so easy. We want to address these issues, and give advice based on our own personal experiences.

Next Week: Let The Questions Begin!

Stay tuned for the next edition of He Says, She Says, when Angel and Jonathan respond to the question:

Black women get a LOT of flak from seemingly all sides in relation to their dating practices. What are they doing right when it comes to dating?

Join In The Fray: Got a question for Angel and Jonathan?

Send it c/o ASwirlGirl@TheSwirlWorl.com.

See you next week for the inaugural edition of He Says, She Says!


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Get In On The Fun – Join Us For Vetting 101!

April 7, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

#Vetting101 Vetting Series

So, the “April’s Fools” post was extremely popular.

Our meme advised a truth from Joey Adams: “Never let a fool kiss you – or a kiss fool you!”

I thought about the quote and realized there are only a couple of ways we can be assured of not kissing a fool: either we don’t kiss at all, or we vet.

Vet – That’s It!

Thus was born the series I’m doing in the month of April entitled, “Vetting 101.”

So what’s vetting, you ask?

Vetting means “to appraise, verify or check for accuracy, authenticity or validity.”

Possessing and exercising good vetting skills is essential for experiencing dating success.

Want to be kissed by a fool? Don’t vet.

Want to kiss a fool? Don’t vet.

Needless to say, the members of Swirl Nation are not about that foolish life, so if we don’t know how to vet properly, we will learn.

We will learn – and we will apply what we learn!

Join Me For Vetting 101

So consider this your open invitation to join me every weekday during the month of April, when I hop on Facebook Live and on Periscope to share what I trust will be useful information on how to vet properly.

Here’s the Facebook Live video from Day 3:

To join me on Facebook Live, click here. To join me on Periscope, click here.

#Vetting 101 #Periscope

To listen to the podcast episode entitled “Internet Love” featuring The Romance Arsonist Gynger Fyer and her beau, M, click here.

Already married, engaged or otherwise boo-ed up? Then share this post with that family member, friend or co-worker who’s single!

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We’d love to FEATURE YOU in one of our posts! If you’d like to be featured, please send a nice, high-resolution photo to InspirationDaily@TheSwirlWorld.com.

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It’s Time For A Lazy Weekend

February 12, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

It’s Time For A Lazy Weekend

It’s time for a lazy weekend . . . with you.

 

The Swirl World Team is committed to sharing inspiration in 2016. Our goal is to help you stay motivated and inspired by bringing you positive, uplifting images and corresponding thoughts.

We’d love to FEATURE YOU in one of our posts! If you’d like to be featured, please send a nice, high-resolution photo to InspirationDaily@TheSwirlWorld.com.

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We Did It!

January 4, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

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We did it!

Yesterday, Adrienne and I held our FIRST webinar for The Swirl World!!

YIPPEE!!!

There are not words to describe how elated we feel! Our desire is to always present quality content to the members of Swirl Nation.

When it came to presenting our first webinar, we pulled out all the stops and did our best to provide stellar content to those in attendance.

We’re yet receiving feedback, and so far the response has been extremely positive. We want to thank everyone who signed on for the live presentation, and thank everyone who took the time to watch the replay.

Woot!

Here’s A Special Offer

In addition to providing great content and taking time for a Q & A, we also made a special offer – and we’re extending that offer to you.

We’re offering a course entitled 4 Weeks To Swirling With Confidence.

Over the course of 4 short weeks, you will receive strategic plans of action you can immediately implement to take your Swirling to an exciting new level!

The course is being offered at the low introductory price of $97, and that price expires January 8 at 11:59 pm. After that time, the price of the course will increase.

For more details concerning the course offerings (laser coaching calls, specialized worksheets, actionable strategies, etc.) click HERE.

We look forward to working with you!

 

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#362| What Will You Bring To The New Year?

December 28, 2015 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 1 Comment

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Have you ever heard the term “church hopping?”

The term references people who “hop” from church to church in a vain attempt to find utopia.

The church hopper doesn’t deal with or face the problems inherent in his personality or outlook on life.

Instead, he believes that changing his environment is the answer. He tries to change the outside, yet does no changing on the inside.

And therein lays the trouble: if the church was a utopia, it loses its utopian status with the arrival of the church hopper.

Why? Because the church hopper brings his dysfunction into his new church environment!

Side note: The same analogy can be used for people who relationship hop. I’m just saying.

I’m sure you get where I’m going with this.

As Vern McLellan so simply and eloquently states:

What the New Year brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the New Year.
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What Will You Bring?

So, what will you bring to the New Year?

I’m all for taking a good, earnest and honest look inward. Next up is letting go of any dysfunction, and then tossing out the things in my life that no longer serve me.

The New Year offers a clean slate (shucks, when you think about it, every new day does that!).

Let’s go into 2016 sans the baggage.

And if we do any hopping, let us hop on to bigger and better things!

 

 

The Swirl World Team is committed to sharing 365 days of inspiration in 2015. Our goal is to help you stay motivated and inspired by bringing you positive, uplifting images and corresponding thoughts.

We’d love to FEATURE YOU in one of our Inspiration Daily posts! If you’d like to be featured, please send a nice, high-resolution photo to InspirationDaily@TheSwirlWorld.com.

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Get Your Swirl On During The Holidays With These 3 Tips!

December 10, 2015 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

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All right, Ladies and Gentlemen, the holidays are in full swing!

So, you wanna get your Swirl on during the holidays?

Then check out the 3 easy tips I recently shared for those who want to get their swirl on during the holidays – and beyond.

The audio from this podcast was taken from a Periscope I did a couple of days before Thanksgiving.

(So, are you following me on Periscope yet? If not, what are you waiting for?)
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I refer to Thanksgiving in the audio, but these tips are good for Christmas, the upcoming presidential election season – basically, all year round.

I encourage you to implement 1, 2 or 3 of the tips. You’ll be getting your Swirl on in no time!

If you can’t see the podcast player, click here or here.

If you can’t see the Sound Cloud player, click here. You can also head over and listen to the show on iTunes, Stitcher Radio, Spreaker or PlayerFM.

Shout Out!

The Shout Out! for Podcast Episode 94 goes to the dynamic, ubiquitous powerhouse Michelle Y. Talbert of the Her Power Hustle website and podcast. Michelle also recently launched a new start-up: Her Power List!

According to the HPL website, “Her Power List is the ONLY women-led business directory that enables you to locate the goods and services that you seek.

With a simple click of your mouse, you can connect with the owner on your favorite social media platforms–from LinkedIn to Periscope, watch her share helpful information with you in a video, peruse a gallery of pictures, download resources (like a free chapter of her most recent book) and shoot her an email to ask a question.

For those HPL Listers who provide in-person service, you can map their location with our Google map function – straight from the HPL Listing!”

Michelle made The Swirl World a featured business during the first week of her launch, and we couldn’t be more honored.

We wish Michelle all the best in this new business venture – and we’re proud to call her friend.

 

Join in the Fray: Are you going to get your Swirl on during the holidays? If you use any of the tips, send me an email at aswirlgirl@theswirlworld.com. I’d love to feature you on the blog!

 

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