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VOTE. Because Voting is One of Your Superpowers!

October 8, 2018 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 5 Comments

Needless to say, quite a bit has been happening lately on the political scene here in the United States.

We want to know:

Are You As Ready To Vote As We Are?

You’re either pleased with the latest goings-on, or you aren’t.

Good or bad, please don’t be indifferent.

November 6 is quickly approaching. As a savvy, on-the-ball Black woman, failing to vote in this pivotal mid-term election is out of the question. We can’t say this strongly enough:

Make Sure You’re Registered

Registration deadlines are looming in many states. Even if you voted in the last election, please take the all-important step of making sure you’re still registered.

(I take my vote and ensuring I’m registered so seriously, I made an in-person trip to our local Voter Registration Office to make 100% sure! #IDontPlay)

 

Here’s a list of states’ Voting Registration Deadlines. Some deadlines are as early as October 9. If you can’t make an in-person trip to your Registrar’s office, you can check your status online by visiting Vote.org.

You can also visit the site to obtain an absentee ballot – but you have to do it by/before your state’s deadline.

Registration Information State-By-State

Tap on a state’s name for more detailed information about registering to vote.

  • Alabama: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 22.
  • Alaska: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 7.
  • Arizona: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 9.
  • Arkansas: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 9. Online registration is not available.
  • California: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 22. Residents who miss the deadline can still register at an election office and vote with a provisional ballot. The vote will be counted when the registration is verified.
  • Colorado: The deadline to register by mail or onlineis Oct. 29. Residents can register in person by Election Day.
  • Connecticut: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 30. Residents can still register to vote through Election Day at a local election office.
  • Delaware: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 13.
  • District of Columbia: The deadline to register in person is Election Day. The deadline to register by mail or onlineis Oct. 16.
  • Florida: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9.
  • Georgia: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9.

  • Hawaii: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9. Residents who miss the deadline can still register to vote and cast a ballot during early voting or on Election Day.
  • Idaho: Residents can register in person up to Election Day. The deadline to register by mail or onlineis Oct. 12.
  • Illinois: The deadline to register in person is Oct. 9. The deadline to register onlineis Oct. 21. After that, residents can register and vote at a local election office during a “grace period.”
  • Indiana: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9.
  • Iowa: The deadline to register onlineis Oct. 27, and by mail is Oct. 22. Residents can register and vote in person on Election Day.
  • Kansas: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 16.
  • Kentucky: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 9.
  • Louisiana: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 9. Residents can register onlineuntil Oct. 16.
  • Maine: The deadline to register by mail is Oct. 16. Residents can register to vote in person until Election Day. Maine does not have online registration.
  • Maryland: The deadline to register in person is Oct. 16 or during early voting with a state-issued ID. The deadline to register by mail or onlineis Oct. 16.
  • Massachusetts: The deadline to register in person or onlineis Oct. 17. The deadline to register by mail is Oct. 16.
  • Michigan: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 9. Online voter registration is not available.
  • Minnesota: The deadline to register onlineor by mail is Oct. 16. Residents can register in person until Election Day.
  • Mississippi: The deadline to register in person is Oct. 8. If registering by mail, the deadline is Oct. 9. There is no online voting registration.
  • Missouri: The deadline to register by mail, in person or onlineis Oct. 10.
  • Montana: The deadline to register in person is Oct. 7. To register by mail, the form must be received by Oct. 10. After that, late registration is available through Election Day at county election offices. Online registration is not available.
  • Nebraska: The deadline to register by mail or onlineis Oct. 19. Residents can register in person up to Oct. 26.
  • Nevada: The deadline to register by mail is Oct. 9, and Oct. 16 in person. Residents can register onlineby Oct. 18.
  • New Hampshire: The deadline to register in person is on Election Day. To register by mail, the form must be received by Oct. 27. Residents cannot register online.
  • New Jersey: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 16. There is no online registration.
  • New Mexico: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9.
  • New York: The deadline to register in person or onlineis Oct. 12. To register by mail, the form must be received by Oct. 17.
  • North Carolina: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 12. (Extended to Oct. 15 for 28 countiesthat were affected by Hurricane Florence.) From Oct. 17 to Nov. 3, residents can register and vote simultaneously at “one-stop” early voting sites. Residents cannot register online.
  • North Dakota: Voters are not required to register before Election Day but must bring acceptable proof of ID and residency to the polls.
  • Ohio: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9.
  • Oklahoma: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 12. Online registration is not available.
  • Oregon: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 16. Many of the state’s residents are automatically registered when they renew their driver’s licenses.
  • Pennsylvania: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 9.

  • Rhode Island: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 7.
  • South Carolina: The deadline to register in person, by mail or online is Oct. 17. (The deadline was extended 10 days from Oct. 7 because of Hurricane Florence.)
  • South Dakota: The deadline to register in person is Oct. 22. To register by mail, the form must be received by Oct. 22. Online registration is not available.
  • Tennessee: The deadline to register in person, by mail or onlineis Oct. 9.
  • Texas: The deadline to register in person or by mail is Oct. 9.
  • Utah: The deadline to register by mail is Oct. 9. The deadline to register in person is Oct. 30.
  • Vermont: Voters can register onlineor in person through Election Day.
  • Virginia: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 15.
  • Washington: The deadline to register onlineor by mail is Oct. 8. Residents can register in person by Oct. 29.
  • West Virginia: The deadline to register in person, onlineor by mail is Oct. 16.
  • Wisconsin: The deadline to register onlineor by mail is Oct. 17. Residents can register in person up until Election Day.
  • Wyoming: The deadline to register in person is on Election Day. To register by mail, the form must be received by Oct. 22. Online registration is not available.

Source: New York Times

And There You Have It

Black woman, we already know You are Beautiful. You are Powerful. You are EVERYTHING. Exercising your right to vote is but one of many of your SuperPowers.

See you at the polls on November 6th!


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A Word for the Year? The Swirl Analyst Shares Hers

January 18, 2018 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

What’s the word? Tell me . . . have you heard?

~Gil Scott-Heron & Brian Jackson

 

Word Up!

In The Swirl World, 2017 was a year marked by leaps and bounds – and ups and downs. Par for the course for just about everyone, right?

Adrienne and I are nothing if not resilient, resolute, and resolved.

Hopefully, you’re like us: you learn from your mistakes and emerge even stronger than before.

We’ve Got A New Attitude

(Actually, we’ve had it all along. We’re just more determined than ever to follow the path we’ve charted for The Swirl World and the members of #SwirlNation).

What’s the Word?

Our word to you is this: We’re resolved to celebrate and elevate Black women; mind, body, soul and spirit.

We plan to move full force into making TSW blog and Facebook page your go to destination for posts, stories and photos celebrating and elevating Black women.

We’ve only just begun. Stay tuned for content that speaks to your soul and inspires your spirit.

So, What’s Your Word?

Many people start each New Year with a “word” they plan to use as their theme for the year. Some are action words, others are mindset words, etc.

Today, Adrienne Leach, aka “The Swirl Analyst,” shares a powerful word for 2018.

Check out her video (she has 2-3 more in this series).

https://theswirlworld.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Adrienne_RESOLVE-VIDEO-1_EDITED_FINAL-1.mp4

Let us know your thoughts. Post in the comments or send us an email at inspirationdaily@theswirlworld.com. We’re here for you.


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The Swirl World Podcast Is Now On Spotify!

December 10, 2017 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 2 Comments

We couldn’t be prouder.

Our 3-year podcast anniversary is coming up in June 2018. In addition to sharing our list of “12 Podcasts You Should Be Listening To,” Adrienne and I have reached some podcast milestones:

The podcast has experienced literal thousands of downloads (well over 135,000 of them on one platform alone!).

And at last count, our show is now heard in 182 countries.

This is what we did when we saw our new channel on Spotify:

Y’all!

The Swirl World Podcast is now on Spotify!

Woot!

We would be so honored if you followed us on this new platform. To access the show’s channel, click here.

Thank you so much for your continued loyalty and support.

The podcast would not be successful without you!


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Vetting A Racist – Can You Handle It?

June 20, 2017 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 3 Comments

Rachel Robinson encountered a variety of men during Seasons 1-3 of 50 Days of Dating.

Unfortunately, she encountered a closet racist.

Watch this brief snippet from Season 1 – Episode 36, as Rachel describes the encounter:

Later, Adrienne London Leach examined what happened. In this podcast episode she shares some important vetting tips, particularly if you find yourself dealing with a racist.

Vetting A Racist – Can You Handle It?

If you cannot see the podcast player, click here or here.

You can also listen to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Stitcher Radio, PlayerFM – and now on iHeart Radio!


Want to be a guest on The Swirl World Podcast, or know someone who should?

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You can also listen to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Stitcher Radio, PlayerFM – and now on iHeart Radio!

 

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So, Are You A Desperado for Love?

May 22, 2017 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

Desperado is defined in the Oxford online dictionary as a desperate or reckless person, especially a criminal.

Discussing the origin of the word, we learn “Both desperate and desperado originally denoted a person in despair or in a desperate situation, hence someone made reckless by despair.”

We normally associate this word with someone who is a criminal, but think about it:

A desperado is “someone made reckless by despair.”

A Desperado For Love?

So, do you know someone who is a desperado for love? Is that person you?

In this podcast, podcast Co-Host Michelle Matthews-Calloway, PhD discusses ways being a desperado can sabotage your dating and relationship life.

Give it a listen, and let Michelle know what you think. Email her at aswirlgirl@theswirlworld.com.

If you cannot see the podcast players, click here or here.

A desperado is “someone made reckless by despair.” Stay cool, calm and collected - don't be a desperado for love!
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Are You Suffering from “Compassion Syndrome?”

March 23, 2017 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 1 Comment

Have you been around on Facebook or the inter-webs for the past couple of weeks?

If so, then you’ve probably seen a few “what would you do” posts. For example, the posts about men saying they want to take a woman out on a first date. (Only if they take her out, doing so will “hurt them financially” for the remainder of the month).

Um, how sway?

Can you say, “struggle love?”

Our Facebook page has been popping with lively discussions on the pros and cons of struggle love.

I must say, the majority opinion of those weighing in has been mostly con. However, we’ve also seen comments from a few readers who are pro about dating men who are “struggling.”

And here’s the thing: a Black woman is known more than any other ethnic group for her loyalty and ability to “stand by her man.”

Unfortunately, it’s often to her own detriment.

This sense of loyalty is often to a Black woman’s detriment because she suffers from what our Adrienne London-Leach refers to as:

Compassion Syndrome

Here’s Adrienne to explain.

 


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We’d love to FEATURE YOU in one of our posts! If you’d like to be featured, please send a nice, high-resolution photo to InspirationDaily@TheSwirlWorld.com. Selfies are ok – just make sure to send them full size.

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‘Tis The Season For Something Special!

December 11, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

‘Tis The Season For Something Special!

Y’all know we love you, right?

Adrienne, Rachel and I love the members of The Swirl World. Celebrating Black women and the diverse men who love us is a privilege.

Our overarching missing is to see Black women live their best life. For that reason, we’re constantly striving to bring you content designed to educate, inspire and entertain you.

That’s why we had to come through with something special for the holiday season!

‘Tis The Season For Something Special

The Christmas season brings a dual challenge. We’re participating in the holiday while simultaneously preparing for the New Year. Thus, we often don’t take the much-needed time for personal reflection.

No worries – we’ve got you covered!

Welcome To The 12 Days of Christmas

Here’s a video to tell you more:

(And let me tell you – I really, really, really, really, really, REALLY love y’all, because in this video I’m dealing with the onset of a sinus infection. My nose is red, my eyes are watery, but hey! As the Single Mom Coach Kaywanda Lamb says, “Do it anyway!”)

https://theswirlworld.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Preview-12-Days_FINAL2_w_WATERMARK.mp4

 

If it doesn't challenge you it won't change you.
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Tomorrow is Day 1 – so let’s get this party started!

Share this post with a friend so they can join in the fun.

Get social with us! “Like” our new 50 Days Of Dating Facebook page, and follow us on Instagram and Twitter.

 


The Swirl World Team is committed to sharing inspiration in 2016. Our goal is to help you stay motivated and inspired by bringing you positive, uplifting blog posts, images, videos and corresponding thoughts.

We’d love to FEATURE YOU in one of our posts! If you’d like to be featured, please send a nice, high-resolution photo to InspirationDaily@TheSwirlWorld.com. Selfies are fine – just make sure they’re not blurry and remember to send them in full size.

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Angels Wake Me Up

May 29, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway 5 Comments

When Angels Awaken Me

Rated M for Mature.

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I am sleeping, drifting…floating….somewhere in that insensate where I am not quite asleep and not yet awake. I don’t feel anything…I don’t hear anything…I am suspended….rising….slowly into my senses.

As I float slowly float upward, I am aware of your nearness…you are close to me and I feel secure. In my sleep, I feel your breathing, your body against mine.

You are asleep as well. I don’t know what time it is….I don’t know if it is still dark. It doesn’t matter. I am comfortable, content, drifting ever upwards.

I feel my lightness dissipating. I am aware of my body. I feel my legs, sensations moving upwards as I move slightly closer to your warmth. I have kicked the covers off and I feel the chill of the air on my flesh.

Your breathing changes slightly and our bodies move into the position we rest in….my back against you, my ass curved into you….our legs tangled. As I continue to awaken, I move back into sensations….flickers of light…soft sounds…the faint scent of the love we just made before we fell asleep.

You pull me closer to you as you awaken. My ass presses into your belly and you adjust me slightly so that your breath rustles across my neck. Your arm is resting on me and you cup my breast and kiss my shoulder. I am still floating in the warm cocoon of sleep.

I am not yet aware of your need.

—

You are awake now and your kisses move across my shoulder to my neck. I feel so safe and warm. It is wonderful….maybe I will sleep just a while longer….

I turn my face towards you unconsciously to accept your morning kiss. Your fingers squeeze my nipple and your hand caresses my breast. You are so close to me now, I move to complete the link between our bodies. I breathe slowly as I float into my reverie again. I know you are there, and I feel you but I am unaware of your movements as you rise over me and caress my thighs. They fall open to you without my realizing what I am doing.

You smile, thinking I am awake. I am responding to your touch and you are aroused, not knowing I am still sleeping.

Only part of me is aware of what you are doing. I sigh…and see the lights around me again…soft flashes of pink and yellow lights….moving around me, guiding me up. I sleep as if I am on a cloud…..a warm cloud of gentle breezes and sounds…ever moving me…ever drifting. It is so peaceful!

I smell flowers and sweetness. Gentle hands stroke me, stroke my thighs, up my stomach to my breasts, soft lips move to my neck and around to the side of my face.

Angels are helping me awaken, I think…angels that love me and want to guide me to my senses slowly and tenderly. I smile in my sleep as I enjoy their touch.

Your lips close around my nipple and gently tug it into tautness. I sigh again. The sensations are becoming more and more intense. I feel that pulling in my stomach that signals arousal. I turn until I am flat on my back. The air moves across my breasts and I feel your hand cupping me, squeezing me, your tongue lapping softly and then your teeth pull at my nipple….ever so tenderly.

I love waking up slowly like this.

You move your body over mine, your hands and your mouth move across me causing ripples of feelings to move through me. My skin is heating up…it is difficult to breathe.

I don’t know what is happening, but I am enjoying the way it feels. I moan aloud as the wetness between my legs seeps out of me. You feel it and stroke me until my womanhood is soaked in my own sweetness.

I am ready for you.

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You slide into me so smoothly, so naturally that I gasp. I feel filled….satisfied to be joined with you. You move inside me, touching places that cause my hips to rise, to move, to make circles. I have to hold on to you and wrap my legs around you.

I feel the tingles as you touch me inside…the little fires that feel so good. They continue to feel even better…and my body is moving faster now, rising, coming into you and suddenly, I am awake.

My eyes are open. I look up into your eyes, smiling as you make love to me.

“Good morning,” you say, your voice so soft and warm.

I cannot speak just yet. I cannot do anything but feel. I move my legs higher and your manhood touches my nub and it sends sparks through my body.

I am going to come.

I feel it moving through my body and my legs begin to shake. The lights come back and the sweet spasms take me even higher than my dreams.

I lay, still shivering, gazing at you.

“I was still asleep,” I say.

You laugh.

“You were responding to me so I thought you were awake and just enjoying the attention.”

“I was enjoying it, but I was still asleep. I woke up just before I came. I didn’t know what you were doing. I thought angels were waking me up.”

You hold me close to you and I realize I was right.

 


 

Brenda Thompson Brenda Thompson is a former university professor and public relations professional. An accomplished writer, Brenda also swirled with rock stars.

To listen to Brenda in the podcast episode, “How To Swirl With Rock Stars,” click here.

To visit Brenda’s blog, click here. Contact Brenda at baybay912@hotmail.com.

 

Copyright © 2016 Michelle Matthews Calloway, ASwirlGirl™, The Swirl World™, LLC,  All rights reserved. Feature photo property of The Swirl World™, LLC. “Angels Wake Me Up” Copyright © 2016 Brenda Thompson, All rights reserved. Used with permission.

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Happy Mother’s Day!

May 8, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

Happy Mother's Day 2016

Happy Mother’s

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Blind Date – A Short Story By Jon Bradbury

May 1, 2016 By Michelle Matthews-Calloway Leave a Comment

Blind Date - A Short Story by Jon Bradbury

In the middle of a humdrum ordinary day, my phone rang. “Admin, this is Jordan.”

 A female voice said, “Hey, Jordan!”

 I said, “Hi, Faith.”

 “You hard at work, or can you talk for a second?”

 Dryly, I said, “I think I can talk for a second. What’s cooking?”

 “Well. I know you’re not exactly a big fan of blind dates, but, I also know you’ve been wanting to go to that big spoken word thing this Friday.”

 “Yes, to both. So?”

 “So, I happen to know a very nice man, about your age, who has two tickets and wants to take someone.”

 Damn.

 I hated blind dates, and for a good reason. Someday I’ll tell you about some of them. My reasons, not the dates. Although I suppose my reasons have a lot to do with the dates.

 But my desire to go to the spoken word event won out. “Okay. What’s this “nice man’s” name?”

 I grinned as I made air quotes with my fingers.

 “His name is Robby Jackson. And he’s white, believe it or not. I hope that doesn’t bother you.”

 All the things my family would say and have said about interracial dating flicked through my mind.

 But I said, “No. That doesn’t bother me.”

 “Are you sure? Cause the reason I ask is, I know your family is Blacker than Black.”

 I laughed, despite myself. “No, it doesn’t bother me! So give me his digits.”

 “Oh, no, I don’t work like that. Just say the word, and I’ll give him your digits. Come on, Jordan, the clock is ticking. I gotta get back to him.”

 “Faith, come on. Really?”

 “Jordan, sweetheart, you’re my girl, but I know for a fact that if I give you this poor man’s digits, you will never call him. This phone number will sit and sit on your desk, and by the time you remember, it will be too late.”

 This was why Faith was my girl. She knew me better than I did.

 So I said, “Alright, fine, give him my digits, but just my office number. I’ll decide whether or not to give him my personal number.”

 “Office number only. You have my word, as a woman of God.”

 “Okay. Hey, I gotta go. Work is calling. I got a meeting.”

“Ok! Bye, boo.”

* * * * * *

 I had been back at my desk from the meeting for maybe five minutes when my phone rang.

“Admin, Jordan speaking.”

 A male voice said, “Hi, can I speak to Jordan Webb?”

 Oh, damn, I just got weak in the knees. I took a deep breath. “Yes, this is Jordan Webb. Is this Robby?”

 “Yes, this is Robby. Faith gave me your office number.”

 “Yes, Faith told me about you. She said you have an extra ticket for the spoken word show?”

 “Yes, indeed, I do. I was kind of hoping not to go by myself. This kind of thing is best experienced with someone to come with you.”

 “I know, right! Have you asked anyone else?”

 “No, actually, I haven’t. Not yet.”

 “What do you mean, ‘not yet?’”

 “Faith said she could fix me up with someone.”

 “What? You didn’t believe her?”

 “Well, I’ll admit I had some reservations. I’ve been fixed up before, just not by Faith.”

 I wanted to melt. But instead, I said, “Well then, I hope you don’t mind if we meet down at the bookstore. I’ve been fixed up before, too. And let’s just say it didn’t go too well.”

 “And you want to be able to get away, in case I’m an asshole or if I’m disrespectful, or you just don’t like me. Stop me anytime.”

 I felt sympathy for him. “I promise, I won’t just bail on you. Okay?”

 “Okay. Sounds good. So do you want to exchange cell phone numbers? I would like to be able to see what you look like.”

 I giggled. “Sure. Let’s do that. When does this show start, anyway?”

 “Eight o’clock, Friday night. And don’t be late. Once the show starts, they don’t let anyone in.”

 “They call me Miss Punctual for a reason.”

 “See you then?”

 “Yes, I’ll see you then. I’m at work right now, so it might be a while before I send you a picture. Okay?”

 “Yeah, that’s fine. I’m at work, too. Talk to you later?”

 “Yes. I’ll talk to you later. Work is calling.”

 “Try not to work too hard.”

 “I won’t. You, either.”

 “Me neither. Bye.”

 “Bye…”

 * * * * * *

 It wasn’t every day that the bookstore looked like a concert hall. But, as I got out of my car, that’s what the bookstore looked like, with a huge sign in front and everything.

 The night promised to be an exciting one.

 I stood up and turned around to make sure my car was locked. As I did so, I caught a look at myself in the glass. I was 5 feet and 4 inches of sexy chocolate. My eyes were a shade or two darker than my skin, and the curls in my jet black natural hair were popping.

 As soon as I had gotten out of my car and closed the door, my phone rang. I looked at the screen, and, with a sinking feeling, tapped the green button. “Hello?”

 A male voice said, “Hey.”

 I also said, “Hey. Robby?”

 “Yeah.”

 “Where are you?”

 “Turn around.”

 I did. Robby stood nearby his own car, holding his phone, and waving to me. I waved back. “You had me scared for a minute.”

 “Sorry. I was having trouble spotting you, so I figured I’d just call you.”

 I grinned. “Good idea.”

 “Thanks.”

 “Get yourself over here.”

 I heard a chuckle. “Coming.”

 A minute later, he came over to me. I gave him a hug.

 He said, “How was your day?”

 “Considering it’s Friday, not too bad. What about yours?”

 “About the same. You ready to go inside?”

 “Yeah, just about. What about you? Got the tickets?”

 “Yep. Got’em right here. By the way, you look nice.”

 “Thanks!” I said, pleased.

Since it was Friday, and a work day, I’d had to dress both for work and for my date. I couldn’t wear anything too sexy. That meant no plunging necklines. No hemlines more than four inches above the knee. And no bare backs. At least according to the guidelines issued by Human Resources. Besides, when I agreed to Faith’s request, it was only for a first date – and a blind one at that. No sense in wasting full-on glam on someone I’d never met.

So, I wore a very simple sleeveless, knee-length white dress, with a waist-cinching black leather belt, and matching black suede stiletto pumps. Red lipstick. Red nails. Black clutch purse. Not full-on glam, but still very nice.

Robby chuckled. “How do I look?”

 My date for the evening had decided to wear a navy blazer with a white shirt, tucked into khaki trousers, which were just the right length, covering his black shoes.

 “Very handsome, of course.”

He extended his arm to me. “Shall we go inside?”

 “Yes, let’s get inside. The show should be just about to start.”

 * * * * *

 We had a good time. A very good time. All the poetry was stirring, the poets themselves passionate in their delivery.

 The only wrinkle in the entire evening was this couple, sitting nearby where we were, who would stare at us a lot, in a highly disapproving manner. I couldn’t tell who it was staring at us, the man or the woman, but I could feel their disapproval. I didn’t care, and wouldn’t care, except that it was another interracial couple – a white woman with a black man.

 The black man was quite dark-skinned, darker than I was, tall and thin as a reed, with short curly black hair on his head. The woman was very pale, her hair a pale blonde like spun gold, wearing classic red lipstick, a very short black dress so tight it was a wonder she could even breathe in it, and sky-high black leather peep toe pumps. I guess she needed them to be able to reach him. My suede pumps were high, sure, but not that high.

 Ooooh, I wanted to call them out on their hypocrisy so bad, neither of them would show their faces around here for ten years. But I was also on a date, the first date I’d gone on in several months, if we’re being honest here, and I wanted it to be as drama-free as possible, for Robby’s sake as much as mine.

 So I decided to be a good girl and not do what I so badly wanted to do. For now, anyway. If either of them said so much as syllable to Robby or I, all bets were off.

 I’m sorry, but double standards do not make the least amount of sense to me, and this one worst of all. I do not get why it’s okay for black men to date a white woman, but put the shoe on the other foot, have a black woman go out with a white man, and you might as well call 9-1-1.

 Seriously! This friend of mine was dating a white man one time, and I remember seeing grown-ass black men practically have a heart attack at the very sight of them together.

 I could honestly say, however, that I had no idea how the white girl felt. I’ve never bothered to find out how white women felt about the whole interracial dating thing. Although, I remembered reading some nonsense about how black men felt less threatened by white women. That to me, meant that white girls were more inclined to go with their BS and not call them on it, like a black woman would.

 I did not get it at all. At the time, I promised myself I would not date outside my race, if only to avoid all the unnecessary drama. But now, I’m starting to change my outlook. Being on a date with a nice man was probably the reason.

 I certainly wasn’t falling in love, but the man deserved not to be the target of hate, when his only “crime” was stepping out with a black woman on his arm. And I will date whoever I want, dammit.

Fortunately, the evening was almost over, and the couple had not said a word.

As we left the bookstore, Robby and I were both talking and laughing, as I sipped from an iced coffee drink. It was enough caffeine to keep me up till midnight, but I didn’t care.

I said, “Well, thank you for taking me to the show.”

“You’re welcome. I guess you need to be going?”

“Yeah, I need to be going.”

Robby said, “Let me walk you out to your car. Mine’s nearby, anyway.”

“You don’t have to do that!”

“I just want to make sure you get to your car. Please, indulge me.”

Blushing, I slipped my arm through his, and we started walking.

Then a catty female voice said, “Don’t you look pretty on the white man’s arm.”

We turned around. There was that couple – a black man, with his date, girlfriend, whoever or whatever she was.

I said, “What’s up, girlfriend?”

“You finally decided to catch flies with honey?”

I said, “What are you talking about?”

“Well, you go around emasculating your men, so it’s not hard to guess why black men like white women.”

I thought it was because white women were easy, according to that article I read. That they would spread their legs for anyone.

But instead, I said, “Hey, my bad. You should have said something earlier. Then we could have swapped dates and we both wouldn’t be swirling. So next time let me know and we can make it all better, okay?”

Robby and the black man both laughed at that.

Then the black man said, “Come on, babe, let it go. Besides, we have reservations, remember?”

They walked off. I could tell an argument was in store for later, judging by the stony look on that man’s face.

Robby turned to me and said, “I’m impressed. That took skills.”

I laughed. “Thanks. Nobody’s ever said that before.”

“I’m glad to be the first.”

We kept walking across the parking lot until we were back at my car. I turned to him and said, “Well, thank you again, Robby. It’s been a nice evening.”

“You’re welcome. I’m hoping we can do this again.”

“You mean go out? Together?”

He grinned a lopsided grin. “Well, yeah. I think that’s how dating works.”

I laughed out loud. “I’d like that! Give me a call, but wait till next week, cause this weekend is going to be a busy one.”

“Okay. So I guess this is goodnight.”

“Yes. I’m afraid so.”

“Nah, don’t sweat it. It’s been a long day for me.”

Under the cone of light from a nearby street lamp, we kissed goodnight.

Giving him a look, the look, the one that said I did want to see him again, he saw me to my car and made sure I was inside and my door was locked. Then I returned the favor and watched him get into his car.

As I turned the key in the ignition, my phone rang. Faith. “Hello, Faith.”

With a sly tone, she said, “So, how did your date go? I hope I’m not interrupting anything…”

I laughed. “No, you’re not. But it did go very well…”


 

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