Purpose. This is an especially important word for any Black woman. And if you’ve read the blog for any length of time you already know here in The Swirl World, we’re all about Black women.
We celebrate Black women and the diverse men who love us. And more than anything, our overarching mission is to see Black women live their best lives – regardless of their relationship choices.
We want you to make good relationship choices. Choices that are in your best interest.
Date With A Purpose
If you’re single and dating, we encourage you to date with a purpose. Successful vetting requires a long game, which means decisions should not be made in haste.
When you date with a purpose, you date with the end goal in mind. You don’t settle for fleeting, temporary relationships leading nowhere.
Why not settle? Why have purpose?
Here’s the Number 1 reason.
You Are The Prize
You date with a purpose, you don’t allow yourself to be trifled with, and you sho ’nuff don’t settle.
Why? Because you know, recognize and believe you are the prize.
Armed with this knowledge, you govern yourself accordingly.
Gaining your heart is a win for any gentleman fortunate enough to do so.
And so, this is the Number 1 reason you date with a purpose.
Because – and we simply can’t say this enough – you are the prize.
When you know you are the prize, you refuse to allow yourself to be trifled with.
When you know you are the prize, you vet.
Set standards. Refuse to be intimidated.
And above all, you don’t settle.
Week 2 Recap
In this Week 2 Recap of 50 Days of Dating, Adrienne, Rachel and I conduct a robust discussion centered on dating with a purpose.
We stress the fact that YOU are the prize.
We especially invite you to check out the recaps because in the recaps we dive a bit deeper than the videos.
Give our latest podcast a listen.
And do tune in for all the tea on the gentlemen and the dates!
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